Changes going on...

Well, I know I have been slacking in the blog department, but I promise I have a good excuse. I have had lots of distractions this past month, but I realized many of you who read my blog probably have no idea what is going on in my life right now so I would like to keep all my fellow bloggers informed.

1. The reason my blog address changed is because Nate and I are separating which means I no longer will be a Dzialo. I realize I am still a Dzialo now, but I'm slowly trying to change things so I don't have to do it all at once in the end.

2. I have Madison every other day right now. I miss her very much the days I don't have her, but it is working for us right now. I know some people probably can't believe this, but Madison actually seems to be doing very well with this. I'm sure it is affecting her since she went from seeing both her mom and dad every day to seeing them every other day, but she doesn't show it at all.

3. I am EXTREMELY busy and probably will be for the next couple of months until this is all finalized (which can be anywhere from January to April). Right now I am working on getting all financial paperwork together, which is not fun. 3 years worth of loans, credit cards, tax returns, bank accounts & retirement accounts just to name a few and these papers aren't that easy to just come up with as most of them we don't just have laying around.

4. Nate and I have decided to sell our house since neither of us can afford to live there on our own. We have met with realtors and it will be on the market as soon as we clean the whole house and get it presentable for showings, which I'm hoping is by next Monday. (I finished cleaning my half this weekend, Yippee!)

5. In the mean time I have moved in with my parents and both me and Madison have our own rooms right next to each other. I have been very busy packing, moving, unpacking, re-packing for storage, organizing, etc. In fact, I'm still not completely done, but I am getting there. Nate also moved in with his parents, so Madison has enjoyed living with both her grandparents.

6. Also with the spare time I do have I have been working on changing little things (like blog address, email address, splitting cell phone plans, changing ownership of pets, etc) so that when this whole thing is finalized hopefully I will be done with most the "little" things and can be done with the whole ordeal.

I know this is sad, and may come as shocking, news, but I decided that everyone deserves to be kept informed of my situation and it's not something I will be able to hide forever. Thank you everyone for your thoughts, prayers, support, and love through everything. Please continue to pray for Madison and I as we continue to work through this each day at a time. We love you!